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Thursday, March 8, 2018

Conjuring Up Dreams Into Reality (Or The Bullet Point Fest)


Goals/Dreams


Because the hardest thing to let go is one's dreams, I am going to list some of mine here... with the understanding that I'll concentrate only on the last one for now.

  • Hard to believe there isn't a Dominican restaurant/cafe in this foodie town; opening one has been a pseudo dream of mine since I moved to PDX.
  • Because of my desire to serve underprivileged communities and an interest in healing, I have been considering attending The LightSong School of 21st Century Shamanism and Energy Medicine to train in shamanism, reiki, tapping or any other health restoring discipline. I grew up holding onto the skirt of my magical grandmother, who was considered our barrio's "medicine woman" in the Dominican Republic; so, healing is in my blood. I witnessed my grandmother refused payment, many times over, from the people she helped heal because she knew they were poorer than us. I would love to channel and honor her work and generosity.
  • Adoption is a trauma, but a lot of potential adoptive families are not aware of that, and believe that love and care are enough to raise an adoptive child into a healthy, well-balanced adult. It would be awesome if my experience as an adoptive parent could benefit and support other families... perhaps through coaching?
  • Last, but not least. At the moment, I think my most feasible goal is to create the wellness, lifestyle and travel blog I have been meaning to hatch since 2012 for women of color in my age group. Most of the blogs I subscribe to are geared towards millennial women or younger, and I think there's a niche in the market for "matured" women of color. Probably more so if I create bilingual content targeting Latinas. 



Wednesday, March 7, 2018

Why Share This...

Because my existence intersects at several places: race, gender, immigration status, and now age.
Because my daughter intersects at the same corners and I fear for her life in white Portland.
Because one of my goals is to work more systematically to abolish institutionalized racism.
Because I want to include and serve underprivileged communities in whatever I end up doing.
Because now, more than ever, we need to wake up and shake others out of their stupor.
Because Justice is one of the top three values on my scale.
Because this new generation is as outraged as I am with these injustices, regardless of their race.
Because I know this is a safe place to share what's in my heart and mind.
Because I'm thankful that none of my loved ones have been shot by the police.
Because by writing the above sentence, I'm trying to cast a spell to keep it from EVER happening.
Because spiritual practices (including superstitions) help with the generational trauma.
Because I'm desperate for these killings to stop, but all I can do right now is share the reality.
Thank you for watching.

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Conjuring Up Dreams Into Reality (Or The Bullet Point Fest)

Goals/Dreams Because the hardest thing to let go is one's dreams, I am going to list some of mine here ... with the understanding th...